AngelSong's Gems

The Blue Ribbon

A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her Seniors in high
school by telling them the difference they each made. She called each
student to the front of the class, one at a time. First she told each
of them how they had made a difference to her and the class. Then she
presented each of them with a blue ribbon imprinted with gold letters,
which read, "Who I Am Makes a Difference." Afterwards the teacher
decided to do a class project to see what kind of impact recognition
would have on a community. She gave each of the students three more
ribbons and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment
ceremony. Then they were to follow up on the results, see who honored
whom and report back to the class in about a week. One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a nearby company and honored him for helping him with his career planning. He gave him a blue ribbon and put it on his shirt. Then he gave him two extra ribbons and said, "We're doing a class project on recognition, and we'd like you to go out, find somebody to honor, give them a blue
ribbon, then give them the extra blue ribbon so they can acknowledge a third person to keep this acknowledgment ceremony going. Then please report back to me and tell me what happened."

Later that day the junior executive went in to see his boss, who had
been noted, by the way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his
boss down and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a
creative genius. The boss seemed very surprised. The junior executive
asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue ribbon and would he
give him permission to put it on him. His surprised boss said, "Well,
sure." The junior executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right
on his boss's jacket above his heart. As he gave him the last extra
ribbon, he said, "Would you do me a favour? Would you take this extra
one and pass it on by honoring somebody else. The young boy who first
gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school and we want to keep
this recognition ceremony going and find out how it affects people.

That night the boss came home to his 14-year-old son and sat him down.
He said, "The most incredible thing happened to me today. I was in my
office and one of the junior executives came in and told me he admired
me and gave me a blue ribbon for being a creative genius. Imagine. He
thinks I'm a creative genius. Then he put this blue ribbon that says
"Who I Am Makes a Difference" on my jacket above my heart. He gave me
an extra ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to honor. As I was
driving home tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with
this ribbon and I thought about you. I want to honor you. My days are
really hectic and when I come home I don't pay a lot of attention to
you. Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good enough grades in
school and for your bedroom being a mess, but somehow tonight, I just
wanted to sit here and, well, just let you know that you do make a
difference to me. Besides your mother, you are the most important
person in my life. You're a great kid and I love you!

The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he wouldn't stop crying.
His whole body shook. He looked up at his father and said through his
tears, Dad, earlier tonight I sat in my room and wrote a letter to you
and Mom explaining why I had killed myself and asking you to forgive
me. I was going to commit suicide tonight after you were asleep. I
just didn't think that you cared at all. The letter is upstairs. I
don't think I need it after all."

His father walked upstairs and found a heart felt letter full of
anguish and pain. The envelope was addressed, "Mom and Dad." The boss
went back to work a changed man. He was no longer a grouch but made
sure to let all his employees know that they made a difference. The
junior executive helped several other young people with career
planning and never forgot to let them know that they made a difference
in his life...one being the boss's son. And the young boy and his
classmates learned a valuable lesson.
Who you are DOES make a difference.

You are under no obligation to send this on to anyone... not to two
people or to two hundred. As far as I am concerned, you can delete it
and move on to the next message. If you want, you can send it to all
of the people who mean something to you, or send it to the one, two,
or three people who mean the most. Or just smile and know that someone
thinks that you are important, or you wouldn't have received this in
the first place.
Remember that! I gave you a blue ribbon.

posted by Angelsong @ 10:44 AM